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GenderRealistMom's avatar

Most of these points are great. I do , however, take a bit of an issue with two of them. First and foremost " Meet often with a guidance counselor or advisor ". Both from my child's experience and multiple stories of friends with kids in college , I would rather say be wary of the advice guidance counselors give. Especially, the non-faculty, full time staff advisors. They work for school, not for students. They often are careless about checking the requirements a student needs, steer students towards classes that are less popular and hence need bodies, and don't help with graduating on time by providing useless cheer "it's ok to take your time" (on someone else's dime). The second advice I disagree with is seek out mental health services (even when not urgently needed) . No psych counseling is way, way better than subpar counseling. Talk to your friends, call your family, see a religious leader if you are a religious person. Do try to stay away from college mental health services. Best of luck to all!

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David Lang Wardle's avatar

Good advice. I did pretty much none of this in college, cutting half my classes, doing the assignments the day and night before exams, and rarely talking to professors, except the one who lived in my apartment building. I got my A.B. degree from Columbia in 1970, but with a 2.75 GPA, which doesn't do much for job or graduate school applications. My nominal major was Economics; however my real major was Band.

Ten years later, I was in the MBA program at Union college, and followed pretty much all of this advice, resulting in a 4.0 GPA through my doctoral comprehensive exams, as well as thoroughly understanding all of the course materials. If a book didn't work for me (e.g. Multivariate Analysis), I'd ask the professor for another recommendation and read that from cover to cover.

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